The human inside men!

Equality! This word creates a turmoil in each one of us as soon as it appears. Different people use/exploit it in all the possible ways one could think of. Despite the humongous efforts it is not possible achieve it.

But here is a different perception of it.
It doesn't matter in what family you are born in or brought-up, humble or prosperous, well educated or education deprived, modern or stereotype, nuclear or joint, and so on. The equality we seek to achieve is of wealth distribution, employment, education etc. Sometimes it is ok but not always. 


Each one of us experience the same feeling, when we are hurt (pain), when we notice the undeterred attention given to us by our counter-part (warmth), the care of we receive by parents or siblings when ill (loved), when we make someone we care  for smile (accomplished), when we achieve something we have been striving for, for quite awhile (satisfaction), above all this, most of our eyes fill up with tears when we see someone get selfless and do that one act of kindness, that one act which we remember whole our lives.

I do not know if or when the subjective equality we seek to achieve will be achieved.

At this plane of humanity we are definitely equal. And it is definitely not an esoteric thing to understand, it takes courage to see things differently and smile when you are being driven like horses, horses which have the eye equipment that do not allow them to see elsewhere, only straight can they see. The only difference between them (horses) and us is we are given free will, free will to make choices, free will to question things, free will to create our own sense of joy and happiness, free will to be HUMANS!

The bubble named internet!

Today, things are being shifted to digitization rapidly, as if the paper will catch fire if it is not converted to digital form. The reason being, quicker accessibility and easy interface, digital things are easy to learn and you can access anything lying down on your bed at any time. All this is done to save time. Time! seriously? What is the need to save so much time? What will we do if we have endless time?

The simple answer to these questions is “We are FOOLING ourselves”. It is uncontested fact that, computers and cell phones were invented to save our time, but is it really happening? A big NO. Let’s take a hypothetical situation where, we have finished our work using the net and we have nothing important to do. How many would actually leave the system alone and go spend time with our loved ones? Very few. The worst thing about the internet in such situation is that, it is like an onion, if you peel a layer, another shows-up (social web-sites, youtube etc.) and this onion has no ending.

This bubble has slowly enclosed our lives and is looking strong and zealous to continue in the same fashion. Let’s see how much air it can absorb before bursting, or rather will it ever burst?

It’s amusing how we humans create traps for ourselves and keep praying to god to make our lives simple and easy free from hurdles. Another catch about these traps is that these are NEUTRAL in nature. The positivity or negativity of these traps is decided by us through the ways we use or misuse it. 

PARANOIA

Sitting in the office, everyday this thought shoots across my mind, "Is this my life going to be?"

                   I see the Associated coming in sitting, talking over the phone, giggling among themselves, do some work and repeat the process.

They talk about, what did they do the last day, what they want to wear, the videos they saw, the drinks they had and other daily rituals!

                                              Happy! they seem to be, content and lost in their daily life, engrossed in their daily lives, ignoring the fact that have made a COMPROMISE with themselves. But "HAPPY" they are.

Watching them, most would think, I want this life! But I am not among the "most".

                                              The first thing that I noticed is, they have lost the "curiosity". The curiosity to learn, curiosity to ask new questions. They do not want to influence the world anymore, as they thought in their youth.

Now, what they want is- a day -off just to sleep and chit-chat. The restlessness to make a difference, the restlessness to be productive, the restlessness to change the world is long gone.

                                               Puppets! is the synonym I want them to be addressed as. Puppets of time, puppets of life, puppets of others opinion, puppets of self pity, puppets of tiredness. They have consoled themselves long before, accepted the current situation as their fate! The restlessness is nowhere to be found..

But then i ask myself "Is this my life going to be?" 

 

The Relevance of the big WHY!!

Need to Introspect-I!!

“Why”, the most common question that is asked by any identity. Not only humans but animals through their facial expressions or acts convey that they also want to ask as to “why”,”why”,”why”.

This is the easiest question to ask but the most difficult to answer. Now here is my question- do we under the relevance of this 3 letter word “why?”

We throw this question to anybody and anywhere, without thinking that whether the next person is ready to entertain the question or not. We ask this question in even the most irrelevant times and circumstances. Here are some examples- “why” are you not washing this piece of cloth? “Why” are there so many advertisements? “why” is that player not performing? “why” is the coach not excited? “why” this?, “why” that? But, but but, we fail to ask this question when the time is right!.  We fail to put this question in front of the authorities, we fail to ask this to our parents when we are disgusted to some of their unjustified acts, we fail to ask this to our elders and in this if we do put up the question, many times we get the ans- “you are not entitled to ask this question” and here most of us fail ask “WHY?”.

 This is the most controversial, complicated and the most difficult 3 letter word to tackle. All we need to do is to understand when, where and to whom we should ask this question. I don’t say it`s easy but of course it is possible all we need to do is control our WITS and excitement and use a little bit of common sense that is gifted to us. By doing this we will get most of the answers ourselves and there will no unnecessary fuss over pity things, it`ll save our energy, we will “talk” less and “speak” more. The reason for me writing this?

 Of course you can ask “WHY?”

Multiple accused without the culprit!

Who the culprit is?

Let face it. We don’t give a rat`s ass who that bastard is! Whenever something goes wrong with us or we are faced with an adverse situation, did we ever gave it a try to find out why is this happening? Why suddenly everything is against us?  “THE BIG WHY”?  instead , what we do is we  start a game. And I call that game- THE BLAME GAME. I`m surprised how good are we, at it. We go around singing this happened because of him, she is the one who gave me that idea, my father is so stern, my mother doesn’t understands me, and most famous one- time is not on my side. All I can say about we humans is that “we are hypocrites” at least I am. I can call myself this because I have the courage to accept it, while most of us can`t. we are so good at comforting ourselves with false hopes and illogical reasoning that we just can`t look though out the box that we believe is our comfort zone, we just sit and go on wasting the precious little time we have in  a journey known as life. We just don`t want a bump on our fat asses and jerk in the body, all we need is the comfort zone in which we live in. facing an adverse situation changes a man completely (mostly positively) then too we call it “bad” times. These so called “bad” times test us to the limits, bring the best in us, teach us more than any book possibly can then too they are “bad” times. Now lets come back!

I bring forth the question, who the culprit is? Is it we? ,Our parents? ,star alignment?, uncle?, aunt? Friend?, girlfriend?, boyfriend? Etc, etc. what I personally feel is that, no one has the ans for this. Most importantly we don`t give a damn! And guess what we don`t really need to know.