The Relevance of the big WHY!!

Need to Introspect-I!!

“Why”, the most common question that is asked by any identity. Not only humans but animals through their facial expressions or acts convey that they also want to ask as to “why”,”why”,”why”.

This is the easiest question to ask but the most difficult to answer. Now here is my question- do we under the relevance of this 3 letter word “why?”

We throw this question to anybody and anywhere, without thinking that whether the next person is ready to entertain the question or not. We ask this question in even the most irrelevant times and circumstances. Here are some examples- “why” are you not washing this piece of cloth? “Why” are there so many advertisements? “why” is that player not performing? “why” is the coach not excited? “why” this?, “why” that? But, but but, we fail to ask this question when the time is right!.  We fail to put this question in front of the authorities, we fail to ask this to our parents when we are disgusted to some of their unjustified acts, we fail to ask this to our elders and in this if we do put up the question, many times we get the ans- “you are not entitled to ask this question” and here most of us fail ask “WHY?”.

 This is the most controversial, complicated and the most difficult 3 letter word to tackle. All we need to do is to understand when, where and to whom we should ask this question. I don’t say it`s easy but of course it is possible all we need to do is control our WITS and excitement and use a little bit of common sense that is gifted to us. By doing this we will get most of the answers ourselves and there will no unnecessary fuss over pity things, it`ll save our energy, we will “talk” less and “speak” more. The reason for me writing this?

 Of course you can ask “WHY?”

Multiple accused without the culprit!

Who the culprit is?

Let face it. We don’t give a rat`s ass who that bastard is! Whenever something goes wrong with us or we are faced with an adverse situation, did we ever gave it a try to find out why is this happening? Why suddenly everything is against us?  “THE BIG WHY”?  instead , what we do is we  start a game. And I call that game- THE BLAME GAME. I`m surprised how good are we, at it. We go around singing this happened because of him, she is the one who gave me that idea, my father is so stern, my mother doesn’t understands me, and most famous one- time is not on my side. All I can say about we humans is that “we are hypocrites” at least I am. I can call myself this because I have the courage to accept it, while most of us can`t. we are so good at comforting ourselves with false hopes and illogical reasoning that we just can`t look though out the box that we believe is our comfort zone, we just sit and go on wasting the precious little time we have in  a journey known as life. We just don`t want a bump on our fat asses and jerk in the body, all we need is the comfort zone in which we live in. facing an adverse situation changes a man completely (mostly positively) then too we call it “bad” times. These so called “bad” times test us to the limits, bring the best in us, teach us more than any book possibly can then too they are “bad” times. Now lets come back!

I bring forth the question, who the culprit is? Is it we? ,Our parents? ,star alignment?, uncle?, aunt? Friend?, girlfriend?, boyfriend? Etc, etc. what I personally feel is that, no one has the ans for this. Most importantly we don`t give a damn! And guess what we don`t really need to know.